Dee Tozer, from Melbourne, who has more than 30 years experience, says of the 5,000 struggling couples she's worked with nearly all of them had no interest in celebrating the day.

Dee Tozer (pictured, centre), from Melbourne, who has more than 30 years experience, says of the 5,000 couples she's worked with nearly all of them had no interest in celebrating Valentine's Day

Dr Tozer also believes Valentine's Day is an opportunity for couples to focus on their relationship and celebrate their love.

Australian dating and relationship expert Louanne Ward understands how easy it is to let emotion take over and ignore signals that things might not be as they seem.

When juggling work, kids, family, social activities, sporting practice, parents can be left exhausted by the end of the week.

Dr Tozer believes Valentine's Day is an opportunity for couples to focus on their relationship and celebrate their love.